The number of cylinders will be dictated by the layout of the moving frame the load is located upon. If it is long and thin then you may need ten cylinders. If it is 12" diameter a single cylinder might suffice.
A trip-valve at the 3/4-extended position would suffice, but with the sketchy information you have supplied any one of probably twenty different methods may be better or worse.
Slotted holes will help setup of 3/4-extended (I assume that's what you meant instead of "calibrated')